When you’re no longer a victim………….

in a bad relationship/ friendship or situation. It comes a time where you stop being a victim of abuse, disrespect and mistreatment and happily or not so happliy become a willing, participating volunteer. when someone constantly has made you feel like they don’t care about you or your feelings, then by all means believe them. A person can only do what you allow. They don’t run back because they love you they run back because you are the only one that will accept their bad behavior.

When I hear someone says I know he/she loves me, they’re just in a bad position. Bullshit! They don’t love you, hell they don’t even love themselves. You treat people the way you see yourself.

Back to you “the volunteer” stop volunteering to be someone’s fool. If a person has broke your heart, made you cry, used you or chose someone else over you repeatedly……sweet pea they don’t love you.

5 ways to know you’re the volunteer

1. You find yourself making excuses for the other persons bad behavior
2. You keep your reconciliation a secret
3. You find yourself getting angry because deep down you know you deserve better
4. You fall right back into being his/her captain save a €£%#}{
5. This blog made you feel some type of way

It all comes down to self-esteem and self-love. Some will argue that they absolutely love themselves but there’s one problem with that……you allow someone to do to you, what you wouldn’t do to yourself. That’s not self love. That’s self loathing and feeling like you can’t or won’t do better.

Toodles, my loves!

#1 or the Only One {My new eBook}

My eBook  #1 or the Only One will be released on October 10, 2014. This eBook is more of a brief look inside a 3-way love affair. You can Pre-Order your eBook today on Amazon!


Turndown for What?


These days, people seem to be more interested in make believe than living their true life. Status has become more important than stability. Chicks would spend their last on a designer trinket just to post it on IG, Twitter and FB but haven’t paid the first bill or purchased a single household item. Guys will spend their entire check on fresh new fit, a haircut, bottle of ciroc and a bag of weed just to “turn up” for one night. The same dude won’t have money for lunch at work the next day. Wake up people! Live your life preparing for your future.



Next month will be my 1 year anniversary….living here in Jackson. A lot of things have transpired since. One thing I did was leave the past in the past. All the disappointment, hurt and a anguish is over but not never forgotten.
A lot has happened over this past year…..I lost some people who I thought were friends, allies can say about that is, lesson learned.

My family is slowly getting back on track. Raising teenagers alone is no easy task. This Mama thing is incredibly challenging.

I’m one step closer to becoming a #1 Best Seller list (I believe in speaking into existence). My YouTube Series is doing great. I’m working harder on my brand this year because of last year.

1 year later and life is a little sweeter. It feels good to have overcome so much and be able to appreciate every blessed day that was better than the last.

Are You Happy?


Are you happy? Take a second and ask yourself that question.
Well? Are you?
Think about it…….
Have a wonderful day!

Sometimes you just need a Cocktail!


Every once and a while we need to take a breather, from our day to day life.
I took a much needed “breather” the other night after work.
I’ve had so much going on these past couple of weeks. All I can say is God is good.

It’s easy to let things stress and way you down. There are days, I’m sure you feel like “wtf” what’s going to happen next? We all have.

It’s called LIFE……

You, my friend are bigger than your problems. You own them they don’t own you.

Life can get hectic at times but I like to have a cocktail and shake it off. Get back to work and continue to grow.
This to Shall past🙏

Living Life to the Fullest…….

Living Life to the fullest has many rewards. Truly enjoying your life even with the ups and downs can lead to much better existence. I figure if you’re blessed enough to wake up in the morning, you have a responsibility to make your world a better place. There are a lot of things you can do to make your daily activities more exciting.

1. Get on a schedule, stop wasting your day doing nothing.

2. Make an effort to say or do something nice for a stranger.

3. Refrain from idle gossip

4. Take on a hobby, join a book club or learn a new trade.

5. Get Organized

6. Make new Friends

7. Know that your blessed!

So…I’m Back to Working Out……

I’ve finally accepted the fact that I CAN NOT eat whatever I want or Drink like a fish without consequences. I started back walking, which by the way is my go to lose weight remedy. There was a time when I didn’t miss a day rain or sunshine. I’m on a mission.

What a difference a Year makes

What a difference a Year makes

So I'm Back Working Out...

So I’m Back Working Out…


Organizing My Closet

So, I’m the middle of organizing my closet. Although its a walk-in closet, there’s not that much space or maybe I just have to much stuff! As you can see I’m trying to make room for everything and still have a functioning closet. The final results coming soon…..



Organizing My Closet.....

Organizing My Closet…..


Products I Either Love or Just Trying Out…..

I Experiment a lot with Makeup....

I Experiment a lot with Makeup….

I'm a Lip Gloss Addict!

I’m a Lip Gloss Addict!

Finally found the right Edge Cream :-)

Finally found the right Edge Cream :-)

My Absolut Favorite Products.... Nivea, Silk Elements, Argan Oil, Nair etc.

My Absolut Favorite Products…. Nivea, Silk Elements, Argan Oil, Nair etc.



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